Here are two excellent DVD's for home or small group use...

Over the last 8 years I have very impressed by the quality of these presentations. These are exactly what you need to prepare your child for secondary school; to complete and clarify what they hear at school, or correct what they learn in the play ground, in a positive, God centred and family friendly way. In South London the community organised two half day programs for 10 and 11 year old girls this year. The girls were so happy to have each other's support, and fellowship as they prepare for puberty. You can rent these for a donation of £5.00 for 3 weeks by contacting our wonderful volunteer Vanya Almeida at 0208 683 4766 or by email at
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Get a lot of help to make life more understandable: you may enjoy these books

The Temperament God Gave You by Art and Laraine Bennett "...in the womb God doesn't merely mould our body; he also gives us the temperament that, all our days, colours our understandings, guides our choices, and serves as the foundation of our moral and spiritual life." This one has a good questionnaire to help you identify which is your primary temperament, and which is your secondary temperament. If you'd like to have a chart which shows you a lot about them 'at a glance' email me at
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There's another very good expression of this theory if you go to www.laughyourway.com and then go to 'the flag page'. A great on-line program, with a book you can buy there too, called
Discover Your Heart with the Flag Page By Mark Gungor Well worth the effort to read and do the 5 step program. This is a brilliant way to understand your differences as a couple, accept each other more, and understand how to love each other.